My girlfriend used to be a Republican. I don't really understand why considering how progressive most of her views are, but she claims she was. She now calls herself an Independent (a transition that was occurring even before the Bush years). She is presently a wavering McCain supporter... but possibly wavering no more. With McCain's recent statement about the supreme court habeas corpus ruling, he may have driven the final nail in the coffin of his support in this household.
More over the flip...
I've been an Obama supporter since Edwards dropped out. His stand on lobbyists sealed it for me. I think if anyone else had won the Republican nomination, my girlfriend would be on the Obama bandwagon with me, but she has been a McCain fan for some time. She has been troubled by McCain's recent flip-flopping on various issues, but tells herself it is just to calm the hardcore republican base and make it through the election. Once he is President, the theory goes, he will pivot back to his previous positions and go on to clean up the mess made by Bush. In short, she is looking for McCain to save the Republican party from itself.
I've countered not by attacking McCain himself (indeed, I've appreciated those times when he has moved to the center and worked with Democratic senators like Feingold), but I point out the neocon baggage he will drag along just by having to work within the Republican party. Up until now, I've been persuasive but not convincing. She has wavered, but not rejected McCain.
Now McCain may have finally done what I could not... convince my girlfriend to reject him and instead support Obama. It happened when we were visiting her family. We were all having a friendly discussion about politics. The subject of the recent habeas corpus ruling came up, and we all agreed it was a good thing. Then I mentioned McCain's statement regarding it.
My girlfriend became silent. Her eyes seemed on the verge of tears. It was as if someone had plunged a dagger into her chest. Knowing her as I do, I think I know what she must have been feeling. It was grief like finding out a dear friend had just died. The McCain she thought she knew was gone. The principled maverick, the sensible moderate... killed by an evil twin it seemed.
She hasn't said it. We haven't talked about it since. But I think her support for McCain died with that conversation.
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